Staying Connected Despite Distances

My daughter gave birth to my first (human) grandchild over 3700 kms or 2300 miles away.  I know, I should be able to use metric measurements by now as Australia converted from imperial in 1974 but not happening Jan. When the media puts out a bulletin warning about an escaped convict who is 164 cms I’m clueless. And when the weather man reports the daily rainfall in mms I still have to convert to the imperial, or if I’m totally honest, get someone to do it for me.

Back to bub who was born in a rural and remote community during the middle of a Pandemic when State borders were closed. As I was unable to visit during those months I did what every self respecting mother would do : posted Red Cross parcels full of treats for the parents-to-be and for our bub, and organised a couple of Zoom birthing hypnotherapy sessions for Pocohontas.

This little family have relocated since then, and we have enjoyed a few catch-ups, but they are still in another part of the country approximately 20 hours driving time away.

So how do I maintain contact and build a bond with the little fella? 

Here are a few of my suggestions. Please feel free to add any of your own recommendations 🙂

  1. FaceTime or Skype

        Harry can’t talk yet, but seeing each others expressions and surroundings can often make you feel like you’ve actually been together. I have no doubt he recognises my face and voice ( saying to his mumma in his head ” who is this woman that wont shut up?”)

2. Send Snail Mail. 

          At the previous abode there was no Postman, but now Harry is excited to greet the Postie on a regular basis. Not only is it fun for him to receive something in the mail, but his mother is using this as training – checking the letterbox is a chore he must do, just like filling the dog’s water bowl- as well as a social activity.

           Harry is too little for letters so I went through a period of sending him a post card each week that featured an Australian animal.

3.   Create a Project.

           I recently purchased a $6 picture book about Dinosaurs which I posted to Harry. He can’t read but he loves the pictures. Each week I have also been bundling up 2 or 3 plastic dinosaurs and putting those in the mail. He has connected the figurines to the book and goes searching for them amongst the pages.

            He had a trip with his Playgroup to the local Museum last week and apparently went wild with the dinosaur statues.

            Next project? I’ll be sending a felt board with a farm scene ( fences, farmer, chook, pigs, horses). Do you remember these back in the day? In the early 60’s I loved school just because of felt board play…….And I’ll be posting farm animals.

       4.    Talking About Things We Can Do Together On The Phone.

               Again, I am not sure what the little fella does or does not understand but he seems to listen when I talk about going on a picnic or cooking pancakes together.

I’m disappearing next week and travelling north. I’ll be armed with dinosaur figurines, a tee shirt featuring a dinosaur, and his mother’s 30 year old Beatrix Potter apron so we can stir bowls whilst cooking without getting into a complete mess. I hope we can go on walks, eat ice creams and pancakes and maybe even plant a few vege seeds together. He’s still a bit young to sit through an Errol Flynn movie but that is on next years Must Do List.

And don’t worry; I do have treats for the grand furbaby too.


See you soon HB.

Mee Maw xxx


Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children” – Alex Haley

23 thoughts on “Staying Connected Despite Distances

  1. Congratulations on your first human grandchild! I have to say, that even though he can’t read yet, send the letters. I have a few that are tucked into my baby book from my maternal grandmother, the only grandparent alive when I was born, and I cherish those handwritten letters so much. Her birthday was the day before mine and we shared that lovely bond for 12 years until she passed. But those little pieces of paper filled with her script, some of them barely legible as she was slowly declining in health, mean so very much to me now.

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    1. They were living on aboriginal lands as my s-i-l ( military) was working with indig soldiers who understood both the terrain and the environment. My daughter did some work in one of their age care facilities. They both formed some great friendships with some of the locals who sooked over such a white newborn. Haha

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      1. Sooked over is like gushing over something. A popular Aussie expression is sookie-la-la, a derivative of sook. So if someone is being a bit hesitant or fearful about doing something, or if they gush over something like a newborn, they are considered sookie-la-la.
        Language is funny isn’t it? I read an American bloggers post about a meal he’d recently eaten and had no idea what he was talking about:)

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  2. Enjoy!! My sons were completely enamored with dinosaurs – it lasted from birth to 7th grade. When cleaning out son#2’s room I had to box up 2 rogue dinosaurs that were found in the closet. Hope the visit is wonderful!

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    1. I was never interested in dinos as a child ( no brothers?) but became fascinated on my outback trip last year to places where they continue to dig up their bones. Put that one on your MUST DO LIST – and I’m going with you:)
      Happy geocaching Muri and Sparky:)

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  3. Great times ahead, May! Cute little guy 🙂 Good to see the dinosaurs are packed. My family grew up with every conceivable dinosaur figurine and still love them. Did you vote for a favourite dinosaur fossil as one of the Queensland emblems?

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    1. Yes, I did vote for the dinosaur fossil as an emblem for Qld. You know, dinosaurs never interested me until my visit to Winton last year where it all became so very “real”. It is such a special area in western Qld and I admit to never having met so many palaeontologists in my life. Thank you for sharing his information. The blogosphere really is an amazing venue where so much information of all sorts can be shared:)

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  4. Congrats on the newest addition to the family! Hope you have/had a wonderful time.

    On a completely different note, it seems Australia and Canada converted to metric at about the same time, but it never properly took here. Canadians tend to use such a mishmash of imperial and metric that there’s a popular (and mostly accurate) meme about how we measure what. It’s here if you’re interested: https://images-cdn.9gag.com/photo/aD4oXwN_700b.jpg

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